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"Riding the Waves" - "TheWaveRiders.com® Newsletter" ISSN 1708-038X
March 2009 ©TheWaveRiders.com®
"Creating Emotional Balance"©


There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle.
The other is as if everything is!
Albert Einstein

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"Seeing the Miracle"©
Chosing the right time for positive visualization.!
by Indigo Irwin Kennedy

Based on Theories from the Book - The Wave Riders ®

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Seeing the Miracle - Yes, you have likely heard it before ... Believe the Miracle, See the Miracle, Be the Miracle. You create what you think!

"The Secret", "The Law of Attraction" and many of the current popular motivational and inspirational offerings have people changing how they see the universe around them. What they are saying is this...that everything was once thought and that you can "manifest" whatever you want with your thoughts.

This is not a new concept but and old belief repackaged. I do believe that our thoughts manifest internally and externally the world that surrounds us but I have a concern that we are setting people up for failure and self-loathing.

The concept is "What you can believe in 100% you can create", but how many of us can stay in 100% belief all the time? How many of us will have moments of doubt?

...If you doubt you will manifest the thing that you doubt.. (Wayne Dyer)

One of my favorite words these days is "Congruency" (con·gru·en·cy) which is defined as

" the quality or state of agreeing or corresponding".

American Psychological Association (APA):
congruence. (n.d.). The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Retrieved March 29, 2009, from Dictionary.com website: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/congruence

We have congruency when we act and think in the same manner; when my thoughts match my actions then I am acting in a "congruent" manner.

For example:

I want to be fit and so I eat wisely and exercise regularly.

vs

I want to be fit but I eat junk food all the time and lay on the couch doing nothing. Am I lazy, or is something more going on?

Congruent thought is necessary if you want to create the life that you desire. You must fully believe in the certainty of your future creation.

In 2008 researchers found that depressed people are in conflict - meaning that they actually do not just experience positive feelings when thinking of something positive but something negative appears at the same time.

First let me add somethingthat the article did not:

They say "depressed people" as if we are always that way.

What they should have said in "people in a depressed state". For us this mean - the low wave.

Here is the more on the findings.

In 2008, *Stanford University researchers recruited both depressed and non-depressed volunteers to undergo brain scans, via functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI), while they participated in an activity where they won and lost money. Dr. Brian Knutson, first author on this article, explains their findings: “When they anticipated winning money, both depressed and nondepressed individuals showed neural activation in the nucleus accumbens, a region implicated in the anticipation of reward. Only the depressed participants, however, additionally showed increased activation in the anterior cingulate, a region of the brain that has been implicated in conflict.

John H. Krystal, M.D., Editor of Biological Psychiatry and affiliated with both Yale University School of Medicine and the VA Connecticut Healthcare System, notes that this finding indicates that “this complex mixture of findings suggests that depression is not simply the absence of reward, but rather a contamination of neural processing of rewards with features of neural processing of punishments.” Dr. Knutson agrees, commenting that “these findings are consistent with formulations that depression involves difficulties in the processing of positive information, and suggest more specifically that depressed people actually experience conflict when they are faced with the likelihood of receiving a reward.”

MLA Elsevier (2008, March 27). The Conflict Of Reward In Depression. ScienceDaily. Retrieved March 29, 2009, from http://www.sciencedaily.com­ /releases/2008/03/080325111754.htm

Loosly translated these findings mean to me, that in a depressed state we can force ourselves to visualize a positive world but that this positive world visualization will create conflict within us...something holds us back from a full pleasure thought.

Let's translate that again into "Wave Riders theory". This would mean that in the low wave after we have exhausted ourselves is not the time for us to try our positive thinking to "manifest our world". It is not that it is wrong to do but that it is setting us up for defeat. We may start to believe that we are not good enough; that the world can manifest but that we cannot. These thoughts are already with us when we are depressed and we do not need one more thing to add to our negativity during our time in the low wave.

In the Wave Riders' book we teach that the low end of the energy wave is not the place "to think". Why would we choose then as we frequently do, to analyze our lives when we do not have positive brain chemicals. We cannot in the depths of depression think positively - why? Because our brains do not have the happy chemicals left (Serotonin) to do so. Your "happy chemical carriers" disappear quickly when we undergo stress and burn out.

Why are we burning out?
For some of us it is our daily routines that are stressing us out and burning us out and for some of us we are still in the overachieving mode of "creating wealth" or "attending events" until we are too tired to continue.

I am all for positive thinking and for training our brains to see life differently. But let's do that at the right time on the right portion of our energy wave.

If you have recently overextended yourself - then make sure that you allow yourself time to get rest, and begin to work your way back to the middle. It is not the time for "heavy thinking"; it is the time for rest and balance. It is the time for you to shower that hardworking mind and the body that serves you daily with healthy choices and tender loving care. for Get excersizing....hard enough or with such great music that it distracts your brain from negative thinking.

If you are on the "high wave" and feeling that life is soooooo good - it couldn't possibly get better, then be cautious as your optimistic state (the adrenaline drugged optimistic state) may have you spending money in investments that you do not really want. This is not the time for meditation on future creation It is likely, in this high state, that you cannot "sit still" to visualize or meditate. This is the time to still your mind, with deep and slow breathing.

If your spouse, family memeber or friend is working too hard...then give them time to rest without guilt.
Stay in for a quiet night - before they use all their "happy brain chemicals", t
hen together, mid-wave you can begin to co-create your new world.

Send a reply to this article to info@thewaveriders.com we welcome your thoughts and comments.

take care

Indigo

Indigo Irwin Kennedy
Author: The Wave Riders
http://www.thewaveriders.com

 

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